Dealing with a partner’s midlife crisis is exhausting and painful. While you can't control his choices, you can change the dynamic of the relationship to make "coming home" a more attractive option. 🛑 What is Happening?
Don't be a doormat; tell him what you won't tolerate.
Most midlife crises are temporary phases. By focusing on your own stability and happiness, you become the "anchor" he eventually realizes he needs. If you’d like, tell me: Has he or is he still in the house? Is there a third party involved? How long has this behavior been going on?