Your spouse cannot satisfy your deepest longings; only Christ can. If you look to your spouse to complete you, you are inviting idolatry, which will lead to disappointment.
Learn to put your fiancé(e) first, following the model of Christ (1 Corinthians 13:4-7).
Practice forgiveness and healthy conflict resolution skills (Matthew 18:15), rather than allowing bitterness to fester. preparation for a christian marriage
Preparing for a Christian marriage is far more than planning a wedding ceremony; it is the intentional cultivation of a lifelong covenant that mirrors Christ’s love for the Church. True preparation focuses on building a spiritual foundation rather than just organizing a single day. 1. Spiritual Preparation (The Foundation)
Start creating a habit of prayerful reliance on God, both for your current lives and your future union. 2. Relational Preparation (The Structure) Your spouse cannot satisfy your deepest longings; only
Participate in pre-marital counseling with a pastor or mentor couple, which is as important as planning the ceremony. 3. Practical Preparation (The Lifestyle)
Discuss hard topics, such as expectations regarding roles, finances, and intimacy, before you say "I do". such as expectations regarding roles
10: How to Prepare for a Successful Marriage - Set Apart Girl